hey my name is blace.i am a 14 yr old grl with no self confidence.i cant get a guy because im so fat and ugly.i starve myself like all the time.i cry myself to sleep every night.i just want to die and leave here and go to a place where people wont care what i look like.i put gobs of make up on it dont help.but my best friend can have none and guys get all over her.i can have on name brand and she have on some shit from wal mart and they still are all over her.i hate going out of my house because when i see a pretty grl i just stare and wish i wuz her.what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? SaraEliKirk answered Sunday November 27 2005, 10:54 pm: Blace~
First of all, that is such a pretty name! You are only 14, your still growing and theres not reason to starve yourself over a boy or change your appearance, because if you have to change who you are to make someone else like you, then they only like who they thought you were. Self confindence has alot to do with how others perceieve you and if your happy with yourself, then dont let anymore make you feel different!!! Clothes do not make a person...Clothes dont make ppl...ppl make clothes!!! There are always girls that are pretty...everyone is beautiful in their own way. Just be who you are and be friendly and i promise you have plenty of time to find the guy of your dreams! Hope i helped-write back anytime!
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