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Please HELP ME!!! i feel horible


Question Posted Friday November 25 2005, 12:01 pm

Ok well i really really like my boyfriend i think i might even love him but i cheated on him with his best friend and he didn't trust me for a long time and now he just got his trust bak and i did it again but he doesn't know.but his friend said that if i tell him then he is going to tell my b/f that i never told him i was going bak out with him. do i tell him or just forget about it and never do it again?

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ScratchesOnTheWall answered Friday November 25 2005, 2:22 pm:
Lesson One: Secrets only stay secrets if you are the ONLY person that knwos about them

Lesson Two: If forced to lie in a pair, make sure you're partner is more loyal to you than to the person you're lying to.

Sadly you have neither of these things in your favour. Pound to a penny your boyfriend will find out.

I think you need to ask yourself why you've cheated twice on your boyfriend who you think is so nice with some arse incapable of being a good friend OR partner in crime. Low self esteem? Bad judge of character? Or maybe in your heart of hearts you just don't want to be in your current relationship.

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SweetxxIntoxication answered Friday November 25 2005, 1:34 pm:
well you clearly dont love him if you have been cheating on him.
and i think you should tell him.
how would like it if someone you cared about was keeping secrets from you?

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xxoBriannax answered Friday November 25 2005, 1:04 pm:
First of all, you don't really love your boyfriend if you cheated on him not only once but TWICE. If you tell him, your boyfriend will most likely dump you. But, he will probably find out anyway.

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