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Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 7:13 pm

during the summer this guy started talking to me on myspace..hes a junior and im a freshman..we started talking on the phone and stuff and we decided to go to the movies one night...after the movies i didnt talk to him for about a month and i blocked him out and didnt even relize it and then i starting calling again but he had a homecoming date already. but he had said if he hadnt already asked this girl he would of totlaly asked me...anyways we started talking ALL THE TIME and he told me he loved everything about me and that he just loved me. and he would call me babe and baby and stuff and then homecoming came around and he said he didnt have too much fun but i read something he wrote to his HC date on myspace and he said it was the best night of his life..ever since one of his good friends got hit by a bus and is now in critical conditon at harbor view medical center there is never time for me...he always calls but has to go because he has to go talk to someone about his friend...i see him at school everyday and give him a hug...and he knows i want him to ask me out but i dont know what to do because hes not exactly helping this relationship...is there anything i could do to help things move along...hes ALWAYS busy so we never get to hang out outside of school..and he also likes him HC date but he said if i did stuff with him he would ONLY like me

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Karen answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:23 pm:
If he's going to like you, only when you do "stuff" with him, clearly he's only going to use you just because he knows you'll do that. Why would you want to date a guy like that? You shouldn't date a guy that lies either, since this guy told you he didn't have fun at Homecoming when he actually did. If you want things to move along between the two of you, tell him that he should make more time for you so that you two can hang out. Though he has a good reason as to why he's not spending too much time with you, he should still find the time. You should talk to him and if it doesn't help, then just remain good friends with him, until somehow you two start dating. Don't let him use you because it sounds, to me, that he will.

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