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the guy i likes name is chris
and he likes me ALOT supposebly he is in love with me. But i only like him a little bit. But his friend Juan oh my green starz! he makes me fall head over heels for him . But i am scared that if me and juan hook up Chris will hate me . but chris is like super cool and i atleast want to keep him as a friend and i dont know what to do please help me.
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I got you now. Sorry for the confusion. I definately see the problem and it's a little larger than just whether or not Chris will be mad at you. It also involves the "best" friends as you say they are. You could be the result of Chris no longer befriending Juan which is something you should consider. Maybe you could tell Chris exactly what you just told me. First off, does Juan even like you? You might want to make sure before you get involved in burning bridges. If he does though, I'd just tell Chris that you are into Juan and you don't want it to interfere with yalls friendship. Of course it probably will though, cuz when issues like this arise, someone's gonna get hurt even if it's just a little bit. By speaking to Chris first, he might not feel like you and Juan conspired behind his back and he may be more accepting than you'd imagine. He also may be less accepting. There's really no majic I can give you for this issue, but I can say the words that always hold true and that's "listen to your heart". Just tell Chris about it but no matter what you do, someone's not gonna be satisfied, your decision is whether you want that someone to be you or Chris. Hope this helps and good luck. :)
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