Question Posted Wednesday October 19 2005, 4:53 pm
me and this guy jimmy went out for 3 months and broke up because of rumors that were spread. its been 3 months since we broke up and i still have strong feelings for him.
he used to say things about a month ago that made me think he liked me agen and that he wanted to go bak out
but now..idk. idont think were gonna get back together officially but i want to be at least friends with benefits...what do i do?
Additional info, added Wednesday October 19 2005, 5:21 pm: rumors were going around that i didnt like him anymore and that i didnt want to talk to him
he heard this from someone i trusted so he figured it was true and dumped me...
but we never broke up because we didnt like eachother or anything...as a matter of a fact...we were a great couple!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BlondeChic163 answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 8:29 pm: well people say things that they dont know that are true or not, at times they dont relize who they can be hurting ... trust me.... you and this guy sound like a great couple but just talk to him and see how it gose, ask him if he really likes you and if he is willing to give you another chance....I am sure that he will... good luck
lunaladyoflight answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 5:52 pm: If you really want him back, at least as a friend, explain to him what happened. Rumors should never be a cause for you or anyone to do something you don't want to do.
And I say skip the "benefits" part. If you want to do those things with him, be his girl. If you're not his girl, it's not your place to do those things. "Friendships with Benefits" only teach people that the physical actions involved in loving relationships, aren't really special enough to keep the relationship exclusive. So if you want to do anything with him, you should be his girl, otherwise you're just being loose. And that's not an accusation, it's for your own good honey. Trust me, "frienships with benefits" just hurt people.
LeahLuv13 answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 4:59 pm: WHAT RUMORS WERE SPREAD? I MIGHT BE ABLE TO HELP THEN.
replying 2: where am i?
me and this guy jimmy went out for 3 months and broke up because of rumors that were spread. its been 3 months since we broke up and i still have strong feelings for him.
he used to say things about a month ago that made me think he liked me agen and that he wanted to go bak out
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