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im 13/f and i just found from my ex's sister that he has lied to me so he can avoid me. i just sent him a very, very angry email was that the right thing to do? i've sent him other emails asking if he was avoiding me and others that have absolutley nothing to do with that. if sending him that em wasnt the right thing to do then what should i do? im so confused and i really want some advice! please im begging here, someone help me!!
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Honestly, I'd have to say that the angry email is seemingly unnecessary. Then it makes YOU out to look like the bad guy, when HE'S clearly playing that part. I completely understand how you would feel upset and betrayed by him, but I hope you didn't type up a bunch of hurtful words and preconceived emotions. There's better ways to handle this. I'm not saying to keep all of these sad feelings within until it rips you apart, I'm just suggesting to not get angry at him. Tell him politely how you feel, and what you think SHOULD HAVE and CAN STILL be done about the situation at hand. I'd also recommend including a few lines in there about how he can always contact you whenever he has the urge. I just think that it's important to let him know that the lines of commuinication are always open. Another option: do nothing? There's a suggestion for you, and not TOO bad of one, either. I mean, in a situation like this, what IS there left to do, ya know? If he's made up his mind.. he's made up his mind, simple as that. Whether you like it or not, it's unfortunately something you have to come to terms with. :/ And I still say that if you haven't yet confronted him in person, do so - MAKE HIM answer up for his actions..
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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