Question Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 12:21 pm
Alright so heres the whole story. 2 years ago there was this guy that just moved to our town in like- april. I liked him sooo much the DAY he got here. He was cute and just so sweet. Well, i'm a twin and my twin didn't really like him so i never really told her that i liked him. But he wasn't in any of my classes so i never got to talk to him much execept outside of school or in the hallways. But my twin was in ALL of his classes, and since he was new her math teacher paired her up with him when we had to get with parterns or something. They got really close. And he started to like my sister. A couple of days later he asked her out and of course she said yes! I was crushed. I still really liked him a lot. i never talked to her about it. but they broke up like 3 months later because he liked someone else. He sorta cheated on her with this other girl my sister hates now. My sister and him don't even talk to each other anymore. BUt me and him are really close. Well, we were last year. I can tell my sister hates it whenever she sees me talking to him. One day after school my sister told me that he called her my name. He thought that i was her and started to sit next to her. She told him it was her and i could tell he felt really embarassed. I still like him a lot. I can't help it. He always can make me laugh and he is the hottest guy i ever met in person. My twin isnt only my sister, she's my best friend. He is always on my mind and but i feel that im betraying my sister. And the worst new yet, is he's moving at teh end of this year! and i never had my chance, i no he will never like me and i don't even have a chance but i cant stop dreaming about him and thinking about him. All i hear is his name in the hallways. But now he doesn't even talk to me. Since school just started. We used to be so close i dont no why. I really need help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? emster812 answered Sunday September 25 2005, 5:47 pm: Wow! Talk to your sister. Ask her if she still likes him. Let everything out in the open and tell her you like him to. Since you are both bff's then she should know the truth. If she is mad at least you have the guilt of not-telling-her-what-is-going-on off your back.
You also need to tell her that you really like him (include the fact you have liked him since the first few days he moved in) and you want a shot with him. That way if something happens b/w you and him she will already know you like him and not be freaking out.
Do you have any classes with him? If so, try talkign to him like you used to. If not, call him. Ask him what's up and ask him how he's been for the past few months.
I can't tell you what to do from there but talk to BOTH of them. Maybe the two of you will get close before he leaves.
Sorry so long- I hope I helped :)!
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