my ex boyfriend from about 3 years ago saw me in april of this year for the first time since we dated. he was flirting with me non stop and i was returning the favor. i never got over him after we broke up so it felt as if maye i had another chance. my friend and i called him on the phone that night and chatted a bit with him... but he hasn't talked to me since then. it was his birthday a few days ago and he didn't pick up the phone. i should probably give up... but i can't. i've loved him from the first day i met him and he was my first everything. my birthday is in 7 days and i really want to see him for my birthday. i would be the happiest girl on earth... but i can't even get him to pick up the phone. can anyone help me? or, nonetheless... tell me what my problem is?
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an advicary going advicee.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? darkblair771 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 7:54 pm: well, first off are you for sure he doesn't have a girlfriend? secondly, go to another one of your friends houses or a phone with a number he doesn't recognize if he answers that phone then somethings up. before you go to that phne call him on your phone and see if he answers. then go to the unidentified phone. act casual and simply ask him "are you avoiding me" but doint be to dramatic. then if he says no then say "in that case, i want to see you on my birthday, watchya think?" for right now treat him like a friend. then if you do see him on your birthday flirt. hope i helped, if this is o confusing go ahead and mail me and i'll be glad to break it down a little. happy birthday [ darkblair771's advice column | Ask darkblair771 A Question ]
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