Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 5:37 pm
I've only had one boyfriend, and i dont know why. Everyone says i have this great personality, and that i'm really pretty, and that of course guys like me but their just to shy to ask me out and stuff. But i dont know what to belive. So, i guess what my question is, is how do you tell if a guy likes you. Because i'm friends with alot of guys, and some act diffrent then others. So, what should i do????
Most guys are shy around girls; hard to believe but behind most of those funny + tough personality's of theirs, they are really shy and dont ask the girl the like out unless they are sure she likes them back..of course, not all guys are like this for those who are shy here is my advice:
- Give them the idea you like them, so they aren't afraid to ask you out.
- Ask a close friend to talk to them and see if they like you then have her give you the scoop.
- Also, shy guys seem to watch you when your not looking, say in class..he stares at you with a daydream face on.
For those guys who aren't shy:
- They will give you the idea they like you, a wink, hugs, they wont be afraid to show it.
- He'll probably just flat out ask you out.
sk8trash answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:25 pm: First thing is.. Some guys like to insult you. Trust me. Us gir;s don't know why they do it, but they just do!!! It's not like they mean it or anything.. Oh yeah, uhh, other guys get like shy around you and that might be a sign.. [ sk8trash's advice column | Ask sk8trash A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 5:48 pm: Yeah, there's really no specific way of telling. The girls that get guys quick and fast have relationships that come and go. Your heart will desire a boyfriend after a while, that when the time's right, it's going to feel so good to have oen again! It'll feel new and fun, and you'll be excited all the time for it. The people that have boyfriends every day of their life are missing out, because whether or not they admit, they undergo the same stuff over and over, and they get bored after a while which leads to another break up. You're doing fine, and not all pretty girls get guys right away because half of them go for a piece of slutty ass and that's just degrading!!! There's no way of telling if a guy likes you for sure, because some people are one overflirt 24/7. But, in most cases, lots of flirting, excessive phone calls, caring about your feelings or asking when something's wrong, goes to show a guy is interested in some manner. The time will come for you, even if it's not soon, until then, see the guys you have interest in and try to connect! [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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