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me and my boyfriend have the best relationship. i couldnt ask for more and i never want to lose him. everything is pretty much perfect between me and him. but all the time when he comes over or i go over his house...he always wants to mess around and stuff. i mean...i like it but i dont want to do it all the time because i feel like i'm being taken advantage of. and sometimes i just wanna talk. and if we mess around so much...itll get boring and not mean anything. i want to talk to him about it...but i'm skared that he might take it the wrong way and never want to mess around again and hold it against me...like if i go to kiss him hell be like "no you're gonna think i'm taking advantage of you" i don't know what to do.
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Oh my gosh. I actually was in a relationship like that. I wanted to mess around only sometimes, then others it would be nice to just cuddle and talk about our relationship and things you know. Basically what happened was whenever he would go to do something I'd say no and he felt guilty about it, making me feel like crap and doing things I didnt want to do, so make sure it doenst get to that point where your only doing it 2 make him happy. That set aside though. If you really care abouyt a person, the things you do is always going to mean something because if its real then you'll never get bored. but back to your question. I think you should attempt to talk to him about it, dont be scared of things that havent happened yet. Let him know upfront that this doesnt mean you dont ever want to mess around again & that you just want to try talking sometimes. See what he responds to that and if he doenst want to do the talking thing than it really isnt wise to stay in a relationship like that.. if its all based around sex because there has to be some form of communication or it doesnt go anywhere. Also it isnt taking advantage of people if your dating them. I hope this helps, let me know =) Feel free to IM me with anything else [ GLAM0R0USZ x ] on aim.
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