i am a 18 year old man have problems approaching girls and starting up a conversation with them... little help please...thanx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CriscoZills answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:52 pm: Before you can be confident enough to approach a girl and talk to her, you ned to learn to actually be confident in yourself. You will never find true happiness until you are truly happy with yourself. True happiness comes from within. When you reach the point where you know you are a good guy and you are happy with your life no matter what, then talking to girls will come easy. I know how you feel, when it comes to girls and being attracted to them, it's hard to gather up the courage. Perhaps you could try what I do. I think of a girl as just a friend and have it in my mind that she thinks of me as just a friend, ya know? As if she was one of the guys. That way there's not that awkwardness. It's easy for me to talk to girls as friends, but when it comes to something more, I've found it's easier to go with when you've already made good communication with them as something other than a guy that wants to possibly date them. [ CriscoZills's advice column | Ask CriscoZills A Question ]
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