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k so me nd my boyfriend hav been goin out for almost 4 months. but then thing is, whenever we would just run into eachother, he ignores me.. like doesnt even say hi. nd its not like i dont like him .. i like him sooooo much! but he doesnt treat me right.. ur prolly sitting there thinking, "shes crazy.. her boyfriend doesnt treat her right?! she should dump that jerk" but i cant do that.. ive liked him since november nd i was like in heaven when he asked me out. but he doesnt call nd im always the one sayin "hey you wanna hang out?" but i kno he likes me.. cuz we had talkes about this kinda stuff.. 3 times nd he askes me wut i want him to do to change. but i dont wanna change him.. like tell him how to change, i want him to do it all on his own. but hes shy around me. he said he always gets that way around girls he really likes. so i guess wut i really need help with is how to make him not shy .. or b more comfortable around me..
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Uhm, honestly... I really don't know. And I know this might seem like a lame and obvious answer, but you have to talk to him about this. I know you said you have a little bit, but you obviously didn't take it deep enough, or else the problem would be solved. It doesn't seem like there's much for you TO DO in the means of trying to make him more comfortable. Just make shore you extend plenty of invitations, and can provide a calm environment for him on most occassions. Do you guys ever do things alone, just the two of you? I highly suggest doing this as much as possible, to get him to open up as much as he can. Relationships are supposed to develop and blossom over time, otherwise, they are simply pointless. And your relationship with him is obviously going nowhere. I say that if he's STILL uncomfortable around you after 4 months, something is up. Perhaps he doesn't MEAN to act this way, but if he IS.. you have to be able to dig deep down until you reach it's source ya know??
Hopefully this was of SOME use to you. I hope things turn out as you'd like to see. =] ♥
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