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hello. i'm having trouble. there are these boys. one is like waay super hottt and we had a thing and then stuff happened and it kinda just ended but i am pretty sure i didnt want it to and i think that he didnt want it to either but now ther are more boys so its not like i can just go back to him and even though i do like him i am still not sure if i really want to go out with him or whatever. but i deffinatly still have feelings for him. then there is a boy who i went out with for a pretty long time but that was a while ago and recently we both started liking each other again and like him and hes fun to be around and everything. then there is the other boy who is my best freind in the whole world and has been for a while.. and we have gone out a few times and i am pretty sure i will always be in love with him but rite now i dont think im really interested in him in 'that way' but he feels that way towards me and i have done some stuff that has made him think i want to get back with him and so at this point i need to figure out what to say to him so i dont get any deeper into this. but the thing with this last boy is that hurting him is the last thing in the universe i would ever want to do because he means the world to me and i have no clue what i would do with out him. but its weird because i really have no clue what i am supose to do with any of them... because i DO want to hang out with all of them but every time that i am with one of them they take everythign the wrong way and if i flirt with them at all or if i tell them that i like them then its like they all of a sudden want to go out with me and have a full on relationship and i just want to be able to hang out with all of them. so if you could help that would be great.. and you can probly figure out who this is.. lol
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heyy!!
umm..well this is what i think--
just follow your heart. omgsh that sounds so cheesy, i know but it's your best solution..i've been in this spot so many freaking times..get some alone time, all by yourself, and just think about it..you know who you REALLY have feelings for deep down.
you talk about the third boy (who's your best friend)..you don't want to be with him in that sense..umm i really think you need to let him know as soon as possible, otherwise it's kind of like you're leading him on..:/ uhh just tell him that you love him like a brother right now, not as a boyfriend, but it's possible like in the future things could change..it might hurt him but he needs to know.
it's hard decision i know--but you need to make it..just because you don't go out with the other boys right now doesn't mean you can't later on (in highschool! yeppy!) umm..personally, i think you should go with the first one..he's been the most faithful to you out of all of them..and he's a great guy. the second guy likes other girls (i talked to him the other day)..uhh..idk what to tell you.
you're the only one who can make this choice though__good luck with it! just do what feels right..:)
i love you baby..tell us how everything goes--
loove__Alex
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