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I need to know what you think I should do...
Okay, I have been going out with this guy for over 4 months now. I like him SOOOO much, and I know that he really likes me too. So it seems like there's no problem right? Well, you would expect people who have gone out that long to have like madeout and stuff but the thing is...He hasn't even held my hand yet, let alone kissed me, let alone madeout with me. So I'm not sure what to do. I don't know if it's because he's scared or if he just doesn't want to. I would say something to him, or grab HIS hand, but then I'm afraid that he would be holding my hand just cause I want him to, and not because HE wants to...Ya know? Like he'll think "Oh great, if I don't hold her hand then she'll get mad at me.." And I don't want that to happen. I don't want him to be sitting there thinking "God I can't believe I'm doing this, this is so sick." And he could get mad and think that I'm a freak!! I don't know, maybe I'm just paranoid. Why do you think he hasn't even held my hand yet? Do you think he's shy or what? Is it possible that hes waiting for ME to do something about it? What do you think I should do...Keep waiting for him to do something (even though it might be another 4 months) or just go for it myself....
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Well luckily, guys aren't as complicated as girls are. We just think they are. Guys aren't good at doing something they don't want to without complaining, so if he doesn't like it, after a while he WILL let you know.
Though I can't imagine why he wouldn't want to at least touch a little bit, maybe you're giving him reason not to? Like maybe because YOU haven't made any attempts at anything he thinks YOU don't want to?
If I were in your situation I would definately just go in for the kill. You must have a pretty good relationship if you've kept it going this long..so just try to step it up a little bit. You have to start slow of course, you don't want to just jump straight down his throat, but something needs to happen. Just do what feels right, don't let your thoughts of the worst get the best of you. The worst that could happen is the he'd push you away. And if that happens you're just going to have to talk to him about it.
He won't think you're a freak, hand holding and kissing is PART of a relationship.
-Shannon
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