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Yall seem to give real good advice so.......
Okay, I have a problem.....Im a virgin and I've found someone that I feel is the person that I could possibly spend the rest of my life....but im only 15. I want to lose my virginity to him but I heard a lot of guys say that its important for a girl to shave....but when I shave, my skin gets aggriavted and gets cut easily there and it looks real bad! What can I do!!!! Ive tried waxing but it just irritated my skin too and i tried nair but that doesnt work at all! I want everything to be perfect my first time but I dont want to to freak out oy think i have a disease or something :(...help! Is there anything I can do?!
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I completely understand. The 'to-shave-or-not-to-shave' question is all too common among women nowadays, especially with this idea that many guys like the hair down there to be non-existant. But the truth is, most really don't care that much. Sure many guys may find a hairless nether-area attractive, but i doubt any of them would cringe at the sight of a stray curl. Remember, they've got there fair amount of fur down there too.
My advice: I propose a compromise. Keep it trimmed, but not bare. That way you can still have the cut-clean appearance without being covered in little red bumps. And besides, without talking to your guy about it, how do even know the shaved thing turns him on? Some guys are completely repulsed by the idea, just as many women don't like a man completely shaved. And ultimatley, if your beau loves you, he's really not going to care all that much. And if you're going to stay together forever, he's bound to see a little fur eventually right?
Finally, remember that you're only 15, and you have a lot of time ahead of you. You may feel completely ready, but odds are it won't hurt to wait a little. And should you choose to go ahead with having sex, make sure you use proper protection, or else it's possible that a couple of red bumps will be the last of your worries.
I hope I helped :-)
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