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Question Posted Thursday June 30 2005, 4:43 pm

There's this really hot guy at camp and everyone is like make out with him and stuff. But the thing is I don't know where to (dont want a conselor to see/find us). I think that we should go out but I dont think we know each other enough yet. He is currently single and I think this is my chance. How could I flirt with him more and make him notice me? EVERYONE IS TELLING ME TO MAKE-OUT WITH HIM! I think he wants to also.

<3 NO NAME <3


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Mackenzie answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:54 pm:
Okay, well fiRst of all.. I've NEVER been to camp, so I couldn't give TOO many suggestions theRe. My guess would be behind a tRee?? haha.. And the ConseloRs would flip out if they see someone kissing???????? Jesus...

Bottom line, if YOU do not feel comfoRtable kissing this guy... then DON'T. Simple as that, no big deal.. and definitely NOOOOOOOO shame in it!!!! You shouldn't EVER EVER engage in activities which makes you uncomfoRtable. You ALSO can NOT live YOUR life foR youR SOMEONE ELSE, so don't pay attention to what youR fRiends may suggest oR tell you!!!!!

And as foR getting him to notice you, be shoRe to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! And as lame as this seems, just be fRiendly! Always nod and say hello if you should happen to see him. EveR thought about just appRoaching him?? If you notice him sitting alone, why not walk up to him and say something like, "Heyyyyy [kid's name]!! How's it goin'??" OR if you guys do some type of activity at camp, compliment him on it; like, "You did Really well in the canoe Racing", oR something like that, ya know? You simply just have to be bold, and go foR it! It's all in youR head, Kid. See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything. I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and intRoduce myself, oR thRow a quick one-lineR at him like, "You'Re hot". It bReaks the ice, and it always gets us talking. Honestly, it's all about confidence. Confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. If you ask me, I believe you CAN do this; now I think you should stoRe that belief in youRself too! :)

Best of luck to you, "<3 NO NAME <3". Know that you can ALWAYS ALWAYS come back to me if you eveR need a second opinion, and we'll keep it aynonmous. :P

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