what happens if a guy asks you out and you say no and then you ask him if he has a girlfriend and he says yes and then you realize how much you want him as a boyfriend...how do you get them to brake up, to get him to not like her, and for her to not like him?
Well, you asked me for advice. And let me warn you, do not read on if you aren't used to hearing what you don't want to hear.
One thing first: It's spelt "break" not "brake".
Obviously he is over you. He asked you out before. That was your chance and you let it pass by. Now you have to accept it and move on as much as it sucks. He has a girlfriend now. They're girlfriend and boyfriend for a reason...they probably like each other a lot. Therefore, you should not and cannot do anything to interfere with their relationship. Think of it this way, if you had a boyfriend would you want some other girl trying to break YOU and your boyfriend up? I think not. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
If his girlfriend is not right for him, he will eventually see it and they will eventually break up. If this happens, you are free to move in and ask him out when the time is right. Otherwise, as long as the couple is happy, there is nothing you can do.
There are other guys out there for you. At the time, this guy you want may seem like the greatest of them all, but in time you'll probably see you were getting hurt over nothing big. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
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