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this is so weird, i am not outgoing, no guys like me becase they think i wont do stuff, ill go to 3rd base, anything, but i cant, i hate it, what can i do to tide me over?
15/f-never had a guy
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I'm not quite shoRe what you mean by "neveR had a guy", at all.. peRiod, whatsoeveR???
If so, that's not a big deal, ya know. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even held hands with someone.
And anotheR wise woRd.... if guys don't want to be with you, because they assume you'Re not willing to be sexual... you don't want those clowns anyhow. You need to find someone who will love, cheRish, and accept YOU foR YOU, and you know this!!!
HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship with you specificly, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. :)
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