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getting back with an ex
ok well me and my bf have been separated for a month and i want him back but right now he's playing like 15 diff girls and one minute he wants me back and the next minute he doesnt . its killing me inside cause i know he still cares and i NEED him back . but hes confused and so am i . should i talk to him? what should i say?
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You said you NEED him. Why do you NEED him? 'Cause if he were my exboyfriend, and he was going after 15 different girls at once, I most certainly would not need him. If you want him back, tell him. Also tell him that it is only going to work if you work together. Relationships are a team effort. You both have to want it. And that means he is not allowed to go after any other girl than you. So he has to drop those 15 chicks you said he likes. Maybe you two just need a break. Either for a little while, or for good. Clear your head and sort your thoughts about him. And then ask yourself, "Do I REALLY want him? Do I REALLY need him?"
Sometimes, two people just arn't meant to be together. And that's ok. Othertimes, they are meant together and just need some time to sort it all out. So talk to him. Talk to yourself. And then decide what is going to be best. Hope it all works out for you.
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