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i'm having a hard time lately. it seems as though everytime i get a new friend, all the boys fall for her. i feel like an idiot standing next to them. and i really like this guy, and i have for a few months. i know i'm not an unattractive girl, but i really want him to fall for ME. we know eachother and talk all the time, but i just feel like an idiot around him and get all choked up. i dont want him to fall for one of my friends. i dont know what to do over the summer considering we're not really friends. i know some of his friends and i hang with them, and i've asked them to help. he knows i like him; but i want to do something to SHOW him how much.. i want him to see in me what everyone else doesn't. i feel as if people are superficial towards me because of my friends. i think i'll see him on tuesday.. it would be great if you could help me by then!! thanks again.
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Hello! Well, I'll have to start off by saying that guys, no matter how adorable, are usually just NOT worth it in the end. Because those new friends you're gaining, although you may be jealous of them, will always be there for you. Guys find a new chick to drool over every so often.
Right now, you should just get your flirt on! Maybe do something special for him.. even the little things such as saying how you love his shirt or asking him what cologne he's wearing. Guys love stuff like that, just like girls do! If a guy falls for your friend, it'll be the hardest thing in the world, but you'll have to be genially happy for her. It's completely tough, but that's what you would want from a friend.
But, you have to think back about it. If this dude is totally amazing, you should flirt like crazy! What I did a couple of weekends ago was I really liked this guy.. and he was at a party. The night went REALLY well, so at the end I pulled him aside by the hand (very romantically, might I add!) and gave him my number. Then I made sure to look up at the end and smile at him. You should do something cute like that!
As for being mistaken for superficial.. you have to force people to see past that by showing them how unique you are! Because, you are, in fact, an individual with your own mind, ideas, style, and heart. However, if you actually aren't very happy with who you hang out with, I'm sure that you can make new friends. If you be yourself and don't worry about labels, than everything should go smoothly.
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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