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hello there. my name is Nina and im 14 ive been with my boyfriend for over 16 months, and that is the deepest relationship ive ever had. well, all last summer we started getting sexually active (not actual sex tho) and then, at the end of the summer we began saying i love you .. well he thought that starting h//s wud tear us apart cus he kept thinking i would fall for an older guy who , hypothetically speaking, wud like me. well there were many guys who started liking me, and no matter how "popular" or hot they were , i kept my boyfriend. i never really cared about their comments, i mean yea i was flattered, but i let it go so my boyfriend wudnt get mad. so then we started having problems. serious problems. liek i was sick of doing all teh things we did, and my parents stopped trusting him .. things were pretty bad for a while, but we overcame it. but see wen you put in so much effort into a relationship it drains you, and things arent the same nemore, the magic is lost. well , lately ive been talking to this guy, who my best freind knows and almost went out with. hes just the kind of guy who makes you want to be with him, and i kno that may sound stupid, but liek, i want to be with him. i want to try new things and be with more than one person. the reason i wouldn't be able to is mainly b/c ive promised so many things to my boyfriend , and also because i dont want mark (the other boy) to think im like easy or anything. its really hard, and until now ive been talking to my best freind about it, but i dont get into detail telling her how much i want to be with him. its too hard to keep it in and i guess this is a good source for help. so thank you. *NiiNA <3
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Yeah well ya know your young girl! I mean you need to go explore ya know if you think that magic is lost you cant be with him who knows you may come to find out that maybe you two should really be together ya know? I say go for it i mean you dont want to be in a relationship where your not exactly wanting to follow through with it anymore=] It may hurt his feelings but you dont want it to get worse anyway ya know? and i definitly know what you mean about it drains you with using so much effort=]
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