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Ok a few days ago i heard my boyfriend was flirting with this other girl. I was hurt at first but then i knew it was apart of there 3 year friendship.I accidently said i didnt trust him,but the thing is i do and i wish i could take it back.He was hurt and was thinking about going on a break, but decided to give us another chance. He knows i didnt mean to say i didnt trust him, but things havent gone back to normal what should i do?
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Just tell him that it wasnt that you didnt trust him, it was that you were scared about your relationship. I can immagine you were thinking some things like; "whats really going on here?", "is our relationship going to end?","is he cheating on me?", or something along those lines? The majority of people who have something like this happen to them DO trust their partner, so its not a matter of trust in the other person. whats really going on is the person (such as yourself) is scared to loose thier boyfreind or girlfreind and their mind goes into overdrive, basically "what-if" mode. All i can tell you to do is basically let him know how you feel and how you felt and whats really going on. The worst thing you can do is not talk to him because lack of communication can kill a relationship faster than anything else. Reasure him that you do in fact trust him, and as much as you might not like it you might want to encourage his relationship with this freind of his a lil', and encourage him not to ditch his freinds for you ( im not saying you are). The best thing you can do to reasure him that you trust him is to give him the opportunity to be trusted.
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