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Blowjobs
Okay, so I'm in need of some major advice here. I'm planning on giving my boyfriend a blowjob this weekend.. and I'm sort of confused on what to do, and I just want a better understand of things. Just so you know, I've already given him a handjob, so it's not like we haven't did "anything at all" together. So, I was wondering a few things...
-how exactly do you give a blowjob? do you have any techniques or advice that I should know when giving one? anything at all would help.
-is it better to spit or swallow? i heard that guys like it better when you swallow.. but i'm not sure what it tastes like.. and some people said that it can make you feel sick. so which do you prefer? what does cum taste like & does it make you feel sick? whats the bad side of swallowing it? Annd, one last thing. How exactly do you spit? or where do you spit it too?
Sorry for all the questions.. but I'm trying to understand this as much as I can, haha. Handjobs are really easy.. but blowjobs seem like a difficult task. I'm probably making it seem harder than it is though. Thanks for all your help!!
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**I'm not shoRe how a question with this content got thRough, fiRst of all; so you got lucky theRe, obviously. My guess is it won't be heRe long... **
---TO GIVE A BLOWJOB... it's not haRd. Just don't think about it befoRe hand, because then you'll stRess youRself out. And don't pay TOO much thought to it WHILE DOING IT. Just kinda, go with the flow, if you can undeRstand that?
---AS FOR TIPS/TECHNIQUES... eh. Just take it in youR hand and kiss all the way down the side, and lick the undeRside - they have a majoR vain theRe and it's VERY SENSITIVE! That usually dRives them wild. Then suck on the head a bit.. bRing it in youR mouth until the head is entiRely in.. then bring it out and lick the outside a bit. And usually guys like if you play with theiR balls; but not all do, so staRt to gentle massage and fondle them, and then ask if he likes that... Eventually you'll staRt bRinging him all the way in youR mouth as much as possible, and all the way out -- it's not as complicated as it sounds.
---SPIT OR SWALLOW... honestly.. they like when you swallow. It makes them feel masculine and in contRol.. like.. "oooh.. this bitch is all oveR me", kinda thing, you see? As faR as taste goes.. it honestly DOES depend on the peRson; so I can't say much theRe. Sometimes it'll be okay... sometimes soo yummie, and otheR times so nasty it'll make you wanna fRicken puke [in my peRsonal expeRience, that is] EveRy guy I have EVER known likes when they swallow, so tRy that, definitely. And if you don't like swallowing.. you don't have to do it again, just make shoRe you get the entiRe fiRst load down. Any guy who is even a QUARTER of a human being won't be upset with you if you don't swallow. If someone gets mad oveR that, they obviously hold NOOOO Respect foR you, and this is a sign you need to DITCH THEM IMMEDIATELY!! And noooooooo.... it does not make you sick. And nooooooooo you can not get pRegnant. And theRe isn't Really a bad side of swallowing. And if you weRe to spit... just spit it out. Plain and simple. Don't make a hawking noise.. that's uncalled foR. I guess it's easieR to just lightly "spit" it out of youR mouth only faR enough to Run down youR chin.
---ANOTHER NOTE... when peRfoRming oRal sex.. STD's aRe DEFINITELY POSSIBLE!! Many times people aRe wise about this and use condoms. These condoms aRe the same as that of condoms you would use duRing sexual inteRcouRse. Condoms nowadays come in many diffeRent coloRs, textuRes, flavoRs and even glow in the daRk. You could have fun with it!! And that could also take caRe of youR spit oR swallow dilemma. I'm NOT tRying to scaRe you, I just think it's impoRtant you know the possible consquences of youR actions. I've included a link all about STD's and theiR pRevention. Please take a look at this and think haRd on whetheR pRotection is something you choose to use oR not.... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
I'm shoRe you'll do fine. :) It's honestly no biggie. I wish you all the best of luck, though you won't need it! =D Hopefully I have been of at least SOME help heRe!! Know that if you eveR need anything else... I'm always heRe foR you!! :D
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