okay. my name is cheryl & 14. so back in january, i liked this guy. we were friends, and hung out and stuff. at our winter formal, he really hurt my feelings, and i left the dance crying. but during our winter break in february, we hung out nearly everyday and stuff. one night at the movies, he was really close to me and holding my hand and everything, and i liked it. then at my friend's party, we were really close on the couch and stuff. but then he started going out with one of my friends for about a week. i thought i got over him, but i didn't. they broke up, and then i heard rumors from his best friend that he was considering asking me out. now me, being daring, in april, i was at the movies with my 2 best friends, and my friend called him up and said i wanted to ask him out (because i did). he said if we hung out that day, he would say yes. so we did hang out, and he said yes. so we went out for about 2 weeks, and it went alright. we talked sometimes, but not a lot. so then, at our spring dance about a month ago, he broke up with me. it was devastating for me, and i spent half the dance crying. he told me that my best friend completely drove him off the edge. i agree with that because she was really bitchy and stuff to him, and forcing him to do stuff with me. so i cried. a lot. then when i got home from the dance, he said he was sorry, and i was such a bitch to him and felt bad. so for about 2 weeks, we didn't really talk. then on may 18th, he asked me back out. he told me that when he broke up with me, he didn't want to do it. so i said yes, because i still liked him. since then, things have been pretty good. on our "senior trip" (im in 8th grade), we had a good time.. we hugged a lot at the dance. but on the 2nd day he was being a complete dick to me. especially on the train home. he would not talk to me at all, and ignored me when i said i wanted to talk. i wanted to tell him he treated me like shit and everything. but i didn't get to. because he ignored me. so 2 days later, i had a barbeque, and he came around 8 and left around 10. at 10:10, me and him talked on the phone, and i told him how i felt. the call ended bad, but i felt good. things have gotten a bit better. we talk alot and stuff. but i still feel like he's being an asshole to me. like, in the hallways at school he avoids me, and in the classes we have together. i'll come up and he'll give me a hug, but i still feel weird. and online, he always goes 'i love you', but i'm not sure whether he's being fake or not. do i need to talk to him or something? help? =) <3 cheryl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hOllisterxbarbie answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 1:26 am: Ohh definitly talk to him girl! I mean look at whats all happening and neither of you know what in the world is going on. i mean you never know he may be thinking some things that you wouldnt know of. I'm trying to get one of my friends to talk to her bf right now actually i mean...there was soo much mis comunication going on! but definitly do that ask him whats going on with him and tell him again what your feeling=]
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