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Question Posted Monday June 6 2005, 2:42 am

im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it

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poa answered Monday June 6 2005, 2:54 am:
I can sympathize in a way, because I have a friend that is several months pregnant and her boyfriend left her almost instantly.

While honesty may not be the best way here, my position obligates me to take that path.

You are more than likely never going to get into anything but a sub-par relationship with that person again. Odds are they are beating themself up right now over what they have done, and praying that you are not going to call the police.
And the only reason he says that he loves you is to keep you from doing so. He may end up pursuing a relationship, but only to avoid future problems.

I don't know if you want to raise the child or you are considering adoption. But thats definitely a decision you are going to want to make soon. Hopefully it all works well, and when its all over, spread the message of your troubles with teenage relationships. Thats part of my goal is to stop the plague.

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