a lot of times my boyfriend gets angry when we're talking on the phone and he won't speak to me even if it's not me he's mad at. well i never know what to say to make him forget his problem and be happy. is there anything you can think of that i could do to make him stop being angry?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Sunday June 5 2005, 12:25 am: Oh my God!! I know someone exactly like that!!!! It's like ***YOU*** didn't even do anything wRong that could have upset him.. it's just he's fRustRated at SOMETHING oR SOMEONE ELSE, but yet he just feels it necessaRy to take it out on YOU just because you happen to BE THERE, ya know!?!! And I can totally Relate when you say you just don't know what to say to make them foRget the pRoblem!! I think it's best if you say something *totally Random and/oR silly!! Hopefully that might bRing a smile to his face. And I say it's best to bRing something totally unexpected and silly up, because... think about it.. haven't YOU eveR been angRy, upset, oR stRessed about something.. and you just DON'T feel like heaRing someone else flap theiR gums about how gReat theiR day was oR something. You don't feel that way to be mean.. it's just not the best time to heaR positive things about SOMEONE ELSE coming fRom SOMEONE ELSE, ya know what I'm saying?? And foR ideas... go with old t.v. shows [something you two might have gRown up on], oR some silly jokes oR facts -- that's what I do [and I go thRough this ALLLLLLLLLLL the time!!!!!] Anyhow, thanks foR the question. Know that you can always, always, always come back to me foR some opinions. Hope this helped!!! :D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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