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I've been with my boyfriend since february. It's been an on and off sort of relationship, but we were both happy up until he cheated on me with this girl that he knows i hate. I broke up with him, and he went out with her, only to break up with her for me again. I took him back, but unfortunatly cheated on him myself whilst being drunk, with an ex boyfriend of mine. He forgave me, and took me back, but i did it again, and he broke up with me. I know that i would have done the same if i was in his position, but despite everything i've done, i do love him more than anything. I'm the type of person who constantly needs to be reassured that i'm cared about and loved, and he seemed to always take me for granted, and so i go and search for someone else to make me feel wanted..I've tried to explain this to him, but he just shuts off, as if he's scared of confrontation. I know that we both have really strong feelings for each other, and that we both do love each other, but i'm scared that i'll never get him back... How can i convince him that i'm sorry and that i do infact love him??
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Well, if you two were to get back together you both would have to make a commitment that you would be true to each other. Relationships are built on trust, and you both have broken the other's in the past. If you have another relationship, you'll have to promise each other that you will stay true no matter what, and promise to talk things out if something about the relationship is bothering you.
With this said, you can't make him listen to you. Just try to get him to understand that you really are sorry and you love him. Write him a note explaining this, and how you want to be with him again. Hopefully, he feels the same way and will respond in a way that'll be great for the both of you. Prove to him that you can be true to him and that you won't do the things you did in the past over again. Show him that you're responsible and want to do your best to make him happy. Show him that you respect him. Then he'll know for sure that you're honest.
I hope things work out for the best for the two of you. Feel free to ask me any additional questions you might have.
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