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please help me!!!!
Hey. I'm a tenth grader at Eden Prairie, ( well since seniors are pretty much gone I consider myself a soph ), and got this site from one of your good friends. I've seen you alot in the halls but never been formally introduced. Anyways, I've always thought about girls and fantasized 24/7 about sex. But last weekend I was drunk and this 16 yr old hollister model, his names Ryan from Edina, ended up taking advantage of me because I was drunk and gave me head. This was at a party I went to with my cousin in Lakeville. The thing is, I wasn't drunk to the point where I didn't remember it. I just kinda layed back and didn't stop him. I knew what was happening but I was just too drunk to really care. I've never really been curious about guys and when I was presented with this option, I didn't pass it by which scares me. Does this mean I'm gay, bi or straight? I'm real confused and told a gay guy my situation and he told me he thinks I'm straight, but if I wasn't worried about it, I wouldn't have the balls to ask you this. Please give me the best advice you can. I know your a sophmore too, but I heard girls minds develop faster and you seem pretty good with helping people. Please give me the best help you can and don't leave anything out because I can't handle this without a second opinion, Thanx Mad
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Well I understand your confused, I think anyone in your situation would be. Actually I think alot of teenagers have come across a situation similur to yours at one time in their lives.
You said you find women attracted, and have never pondered on the topic of men right? Well I think that might answer your question. Keep in mind that you said that you were drunk that night. Even though you knew what was going on, I still think that the drinking could have impared your judgement.
If you ask anyone in this school, I bet more then half had said they have kissed or some something with the same sex, either as a dare, or they were going through a Bi-curious stage.
From what you are telling me, I would consider yourself straight, becuase you said you find women attracted. Maybe the reason you let it happen was becuase your judgement was impared, maybe it was becuase it was something new to you. Either way, I think only you can truely answer the question you are seeking, sure you can get imput with others, but I think you know the answer.
I hope I helped somewhat
p.s( I'm actually a freshman this year, will be a soph next year, actually in.. 6 something days! wooo hooo)
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