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blind date
where do i start? im 13 and a girl...and my friend is trying to set me up on a blind date with her friend (i have seen a picture of him and he is nice)but i am positive that he wont like me no boys like me because im not extremely pretty or stick thin...i want to go on this blind date but im not sure any advise???
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You said you want to go on the blind date. So go on the date! No buts.
Don't be positive about being negative! You don't know for sure he won't like you. You don't need to be extremely pretty or stick thin in order for a guy to like you. You have to love yourself first in order to love anyone else. Blind dates can be fun because you're meeting a totally new guy and it can be exciting. So just give it a try and go on the date. Be confident. Not so confident you scare him away and make him think you are arrogant of course. Just be confident about yourself and smile. Talk to him casually. There are lots of things to talk about, just say what pops into your head. If he's a great guy, he'll like you for you and not base everything on looks.
My point is, don't worry if he likes you or not. Just go on the date to have some fun. If he likes you, that's great, you had fun AND you scored! If he doesn't like you, that's alright because at least that's one more guy to check off on your list. And it might not be because he doesn't like you, it might be because you guys just don't click and he's not your type. You can't expect everyone to like you, there's gotta be someone out there that doesn't. That's true for all of us, so don't feel bad even if he doesn't like you.
Plus, it's only one date, so if he judges you so quickly, he's probably not worth a second date anyway. Dating is about experiencing things, bonding with someone, and finding out what you need and want. Not all dates go perfectly well and not all dates end up in having a new soulmate. We date so we can try new things and have some fun and hopefully find our perfect soulmate.
Good luck on your date!
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