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Okay, my situtation is quite complicated actually, and i was specfically looking for someone older with experiance. so, here it goes. Im 17 years old, ( male ) and i live in FL. i met a girl on an online game, who is 19 and lives in SF Cali. i am planning to fly there and meet her. i have known her online for over 7 months. if everything works out, im planning on attending SF State university and getting an apartment there. tell me honestly, what you think of this. and do you think this is out of my reach? I feel much for her even though i havent met her in person. so yes, SF is very far away from home, and very expensive but in most ways, id like to work hard and give it a shot because without that plan, i feel lost without a purpose. please help me out
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First of all, you don't want to go to another state (especially one that is expensive) without a back up plan or any way of quickly getting out of a situation. Second, this is someone you have never met before and do not know how they work in person, you will want to spend a significant amount of time with her before you fully decide on moving there. If you are planning on attending SF State University, great, but don't make a decision on a school based on any girl. If you were both meant to be, then it could last right through college. I personally met my husband online and we have 1 child and another on the way, BUT I never went into the situation with any plans on a long term relationship. I know this is a hard situation, but most teenage romances are not long lived, no matter how many good intentions you had going into it. Just keep an open mind and if it doesn't work out, don't be devistated, you may just end up liking SF without her.
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