ok, my best friend is a guy. we've been best friends for a very long time and i can be myself in front of him and tell him everything. what do i do if im starting to have feelings for him? i wouldn't want to ruin our relationship as friends if something went wrong but now im really starting to like him. i dont know what to do...what if he doesnt like me?
please help me with this one.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cOuRtaNdaLeX answered Sunday May 8 2005, 9:58 pm: ahhHh! well i know like..exactly how this goes. umm, well if you say you can be yourself around him and tell him everything, i assume that he doesn't make fun of you or anything (like seriously) so i think that if you would tell him that you are starting to have *FeELiNgS* for him, that he would probably be nice about it, even if he doesn't feel the same way. i think you should go for it! be careful though, don't scare him off.. when you tell him, if he doesn't say much, he's probably just surprised, so don't feel bad (i've gone through this before lol!). if ya'll are both really comfortable around eachother then i don't see why you wouldn't have a chance! honestly, you will never know unless you tell him.
i know it can be hard, and i also know you don't wanna ruin what ya'll already have, that's why i just said be careful when you tell him.. he might not be used to thinking of you that way, but if he knows YoU like him like that, his feelings might change in a good way! GoOd LuCk! tell us how it goes!!
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