Last night I was hanging out with my boyfriend and I started giving him a hand job. I had never done it before with him... or with anyone. So i was doing it for about like 10 minutes and nothing was happening and he just like got up and put his pants back on. Is this the way its supposed to be or did i just do something wrong? Can i improve doing something next time? (we didnt use lotion or anything like that which i was told was good to use when doing that) Please give me some advice. thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? josephballard10 answered Sunday November 2 2008, 4:39 pm: Seeing as how you gave him a hand-job with no sort of soother like lotion or oil, it probably hurt him a little and felt kind of uncomfortable. You need to get him to ejaculate, in order for it to be good. With nothing happening, yeah, it was kind of bad, but there is a solution. The next time you do it with him, the hand-job, you should talk dirty to him. Something like, "You like that", "That feel good", And ask him questions of what he likes during a hand-job like, "Do you want me to go faster, slower?" and talk to him about something you know that can make him fantasize during the hand-job, and use some of your body during the hand-job to get him very excited. [ josephballard10's advice column | Ask josephballard10 A Question ]
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