Okay! well..i like this guy, but he has a girlfriend, he is mostly aways busy to, me and his girlfriend are friends,like really good friends,and she calls me and stuff and talks about him all the time, and im so happy for her and him because there some of my best friends, but im not gonna say it doesnt exctually bother me, because it bothers me ALOT, because i like him SO much!we even went out before! and when they get in a fight, they both call me..cuz there some of my best friends and its been really hard and tough going through all this, b/c i like him so much, he was also my first kiss, and i just miss him so much, and..i would never dare steal him away from her, because i love her like shes my own sister, and i guess i just need help getting over him, ive tried so much, but nothing seems to work, he always on my mind!! please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jordan8763 answered Monday April 11 2005, 10:54 pm: ok..WOW, thats a hard one to answer.I've been through the same thing before!! It happenes to the best of us. But some how you always find a way to get though it. Of course you know that they wont be together FOREVER, it may seem like it but, as summer comes around their relationship will probably fade, and when it does thats your chance to get him back,and if thats not what you want then thats your chance to get closer to him. Its hard not to be jelious but theres no cure for that, if your friend ever tries to rub it in your face just act like your happy for them or sound excited (even though you want to scream)because it wont give her any power over you. Just try to move on, i know its hard but go for someone better show your friend that you can get someone just like she can, and once you get attached to some one new you will eventually get over him and be in love with someone even better than you ever dreamed of...even better than the first guy!! you can do it!! GOOD LUCK!!
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