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My husband and I have been through ups and downs between 2003 & 2004, all including changes in the church we attended due to minister\elder\leader
distrust and financial issues, changes in our marriage - immorality on both sides- physical on his
part, online on my part in which I met the person once. We are now together and
all is great this year, almost as if all is anew, we are fully committed now and love each other deeply, I will be completing a degree in a
month, our firt child is in the gifted program at school, and our 1 yr. old is just as smart, however, recently I found out that a co-worker (not
supervisor) has gone into my history e-mail files and sent my personal e-mails to
other co-workers regarding conversations I've had with other women seeking
spiritual advice on my marriage and other e-mails when later when I didn't believe in our marriage,
between me and the man I was communicating with. I can say that I am not embarrassed or
ashamed only because I've accepted the sin I've committed and that all has been
forgiven with my husband. My problem is that I feel that this woman did this to
defame my character, because although I have sinned, I do make an effort to be
a Christian. I have confronted her and others whom she has sent this
information to, but she lied and said that she was not 'talking' about me. She feels validated for doing this because I've overheard her tell people that she did that because I lied about the things that has happened in my marriage. My situation is that I don't tell everyone everything and whatever I do tell, that is my business. I've gone to the IT director regarding this, and he stated that employees should not be accessing other's e-mail files. I have not gone to my supervisor because this has to do with personal e-mail conversations and nothing pertaining to clients. My
thought was to sue her for libel just because I feel like I need to do something,
but the truth is, I don't think God is wanting me to do this. As far as I know, she continually accesses my e-mail daily to see the e-mails that I send to people, personal and work-related. Should I confront her again and go to my supervisor?
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