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Older guy/Mixed Feelings
I need second opinions on this:
I am 15. I am currently with a 27 year old guy.
He gives me all the respect i deserve, and we've been together for about 10 months now.
Society says he must not right in the head if he talks to a young teen. But I have so much love for him, it's unbelieveable. We haven't had sex yet, and he's not pressuring me to. He helps me with my personal and family problems and everything. My question is, what do you think? I need second opinions about this. Our age gap is almost double, and that may cause some problems now and later in life. I don't want to sound like a silly little girl, but is it possible the one meant for me could be someone like him?
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I personally think that age doesn't matter unless you are sexually active. If he's respecting you and not pressuring you into anything then it seems like a good relationship. Your parents of course are not going to approve because yes he is almsot twice your own age. I personally think that nothing is wrong with it however, if anyone is to find out about it and knows about the age difference, regardless of whether or not you are being intimate, he could still be arrested for endangering the welfare of a minor. You have to be very very careful about this situation. And the answer to your second question, yes, I think it is possible for you to be meant to be with someone like him. If two people truely love eachother they will overcome any obstacle that may get between the two of them. Just keep that in mind. I wish you the best of luck and of course, if you need anything else just drop it in my box! Good luck.
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