ugh.. i feel, so lonly right now. ive always wanted to be one of those people who dont need a guy beside them. and for the most part, i really think i am. but what do you do if you really want one? ------ theres been this guy.. and i guess hes liked me off and on but ive liked him ALOT for awhile now, but after much consideration, crying and convinceing myself to like other guys.. i can actually say that we are just friends. although if he ever wanted to make it more id jump on it in a heartbeat. yea, im still working on that. and theres this other guy that i really dont know very well but i just know that, if we had the chance, we could make each other sooo happy. but.. he doesnt see it. i mean i havent talked to him about it, but its just obvious. he doesnt think of me like that. ugh please tell me what to do. what to think. what to feel.
ready and willing to completely give up.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mandie answered Thursday March 31 2005, 10:06 pm: i can't tell you how to feel first off. feeling is something this advice column lacks. it sounds to me like people are seeing you more as a friend type. possibly because you haven't gone out with alot of people? possibly you haven't had a boyfriend in a long time? possibly you haven't done anything with a guy in a long time? well, i'm not sure of the situation but here is my first bit of advice. TALK TO THE GUYS. both of them, ask them if you have a chance of being with them. even though guys don't act like it, they will like you. just because a guy isn't all over you or isn't obsessed doesn't mean hes not into it. TALK TALK TALK TALK TALK. communication is really important. but here we go, when he responds re-post to me and ask me more advice and give me his response and i sware i'll help. hope i helped for now.... :) [ mandie's advice column | Ask mandie A Question ]
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