okay I feel really horrible asking this... but there's this guy I went out with not to long ago, and he still likes me and wants to go back out again...here's the thing, I have a boyfriend right now. But I really like the guy that I went out with not too long ago. And the guy I'm going out with now is really cute, and really sweet, and likes me a lot, but i'm not that into it. But, if I broke up with him for the other guy he'd be heartbroken.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 11:59 am: Dear Notagain,
The question within your letter is perfectly valid. If you're not that into your boyfriend, that's okay. It doesn't mean you're a horrible person, nor does it mean that you have to stay with someone that you're just not feeling. It is what it is. Feelings aren't wrong, they just are. However, I would take care not to break up with him for another guy. You can break up with him for other honest reasons that will not hurt him AS much. I would tell him what you told me. He is really cute, you think he's really a sweet guy. You just aren't sure how you're feeling and you would like to explore that. You don't want to hurt him but you don't want to be hurt either. Good luck. Tell me how it works out.
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