This may take a while to explain.
I have a friend who's a guy. I have liked him since the end of last year, so this year I was thinking about asking him to HC (Homecoming). Well, before I could get the chance to, one of the few friends I told about my feelings asked him if he knew I liked him. Well he responded yes, but he wasn't going to do anything about it.
So I decided to not ask him, but still acted totally weird around him, because I was a bit on the obbsessed side. Asked him to dance at Homecoming, nothing exciting happend, etc etc. I think I freaked him out a bit (not surprising). I asked him to the Trail of Lights, we hung there and talked (he spent the whole time with me) I asked him out at the end, and he said he was busy the rest of Spring Break. The ball was in his court at that point, and nothing really happend, and things were aquard with him at school, so I decided to give it up and just stay friends. I sent him a rose anonomously on V-day, but it didn't really mean anything at that point, more like a habit. My feelings have cooled off quite a bit. This is where I am now.
He has started to pay more attention to me. He starts conversations with me (and holds them), smiles at me in the hall, and I constantly catch him looking at me from across the Choir room.
What's going on? Should I talk to him about it? I still kinda like him, but I don't know what to do. Help?
-Guys are Confusing
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustAskMeLonDon answered Thursday March 3 2005, 8:55 pm: Dear Guys are confusing
Just about every girl has gone through this before. This guy obviously has some sort of interest in you if hes even giving you the time of day. Because trust me if he wouldnt have though there was somthing interesting about you i dout he would have gone places with you such as the trail of lights? I'm just guessing its LITTERALLY a trail of lights? lol is it a romantic place? Or is it where all the kids you hang out with go all the time? Anyways I personally think its better to have tried and failed to have never had tried and never known what COULD have happened! So my advice to you is to go for it...all the way because its just going to keep killing you untill you eventually do somthing and then you will be so relieved! So talk to him but dont be to forward just let him make the moves..you just respond! So just go for it and let me know how it goes! I will help you along the way
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