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The guy I met at Sam's
I was at my cousin's house when he got a call from his other friend, Tyler. We were playing Halo2, and Sam just kept talking to this "Tyler." Then, I guess Tyler heard me make comments baout the game, he said he wanted to talk to me. We talked for a while, and then we hung up. He called several otehr times that day. And on the last call for the day, Tyler said he wanted to meet me.
When I got home from staying at Sam's house, IO got on Runescape. Sam and Tyler were on. I talked to Sam and Tyler on teh PM messaging, and Tyler must have sent me something by accident. It read: "Will I like her?" It got me pretty suspicious. I asked sam, and he said Tyler told him he liked me. I thought: "No big deal. He'll get over it." But I still wanted to meet him. He seemed pretty cool.
So, two weeks later, I stayed at Sam's again when I met Tyler. He was cool. We played a lot of video games, and had fun. But, late at night before we went to sleep, Tyler asked me out!! I refused, cause, y'know. I had a BF. And he went pretty okay with it. For now.
When I went home from that stay, my mom told me I couldn't go to stay the night at Sam's anymore. Tears and such. Anyway, when I got on Runescape today, Tyler was on too. He kept asking me questions like: "When you break up wit ur BF and I break up wit my GF, will you go out wit me?" and "You're beautiful and charming" and "When I learn to drive, will you go on my frist date with me?"
I couldn't take it. Before I could say anything more, he said he had to get off. I said bye to him and that was it. I need to do something about this. I only want him as my friend, but I don't know how to get him off my back! He won't stop takling about how much he likes me!
PLZ HELP MEH!
~J...
P.S. I don't want to hurt his feelings. But I still don't want him on me when I have a BF!
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Ok, so you think this Tyler guy is "cool" but you dont wanna go out with him because you have a boyfriend, right? Ok, got it. So, this is what you do. The next time you see him at Sam's house or the next time you see him online at runescape, just straight out tell him, "Hey. Ok, yeah, I think you're pretty cool as a friend. But I dont like you that way. I have a boyfriend, and were probably staying together for a long time. And even if I do break up with him, I still dont have those kinds of feeling torwards you. I mean, I think its really flattering that you like me and you think that I'm beautiful and all, but no. Its not neutral. It wouldnt be right. And I'm sorry, and I hope you'll understand." And maybe if he's a good friend, he really will understand. And while you're at it, tell him this, "Hey I think its nice that you talk about me and stuff, but I dont really like hearing about myself all the time, lol. Lets get off of the subject for a while." But, I mean, if that doesnt work, then maybe you can tell Sam to talk to him. Anyway, I know exactly how you feel and i can tell that Tyler is just waiting for you to break up wif ur BF. If he understands and gets off of your back, then you got a mighty good friend there. I hope I helped. If you need anything else, feel free to ask me on my advice column, okey?
xOo Nikki xO
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