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okay, well i really lked this guy and have now, god knows how long.. and lately we've hung out alottt. Well, I guess you could say.. I gave up my virginity for him, which hell was the stupidest thing. But I mean wow, that's alot you know..and we're not supposed to tell anyone, b/c his best friend likes me and i dont want to ruin theyre friendship. but yeah he was so sweet to me.. and we had a thing, but now he's a complete asshole to me, and the only time he has been is in front of his friends. do you think he just used me to get a piece of ass? Or do you think he honestlyliked me and is just tryin to cover it in front of his friends so his best friend wont find out?
I REALLY NEED HELP. YOU HAVE NO IDEA. :/
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Well, I think you and the guy you like, should talk things over, ask him if he really likes you, or if he just wants to be friends with benefits, if you word it like that, you'll be able to tell if he really likes you. Because, me being a guy can tell you what we're like, if we really like you we'll tell you if you ask. And if you ask us if we just wanna be friends with benefits, and we say yea, I just wanna be friends with benefits, then you'd know that we don't like you, or like you a little bit but not enough to go out with you, or used you, or it was a weird just happened kinda thing that wasn't meant to be, there could be a number of reasons. But anyways ask him if he likes you or just wants to be friends with benefits and if he says he likes you and wants a relationship, than you know hes telling the truth and and doesn't just think of you as a piece of ass. Once You've got that out of the way, if He really truly likes you, and wants to be with you, tell him that its not right to be hanging out or flirting around with eachother behind his friends back. I know I wouldn't want a girl and my friend to do that to me. Tell him he needs to talk to his friend about it, and he needs to tell his friend you guys are thinking about going out, and make sure his friends okay with, and not crushed. Then after thats cleared up, give him a chance, and if he still acts weird in front of his friends, you know it can't be cause hes trying to keep it from a friend....at that point you need to ask him whats his deal and why hes acting so weird....if he says he doesn't know you need to drop him. Maybe he was a little immature or Just didn't know how to handle a relationship.
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