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Torn


Question Posted Friday February 18 2005, 4:50 pm

Okay there are three guys I like and none of it makes sense!

#1 - I've gone out with this guy a few times before and he was my first everything... my first kiss my first guy to hold hands with, all that stuff. It all felt really right. Well he broke up with me a few months ago but of course I still like him... and he's still friends with me and friends with my friends and all that stuff so it's hard not to be around him you know? And sitting by him at the movies and just being "friends" hurts a lot.

#2 - Me and two of my friends (one 8th grader, one 7th grader) like this guy ( and none of us would be that mad if he went out with the other one so its not like it would ruin a friendship over him) ... he's really really cute and sweet and so many good things! Unfortunately he has a girlfriend (who goes to another school) but.. he lied to us and told us he wasn't going out with this girl from another school...which we found out later he really was... does that mean he doesn't really like her?

#3 - I only get to see him sometimes but he's so cool! He's really smart and when I talk to him he acts like he's listening and he makes great conversation! I guess what I'm trying to say is he makes me feel important and listened to (but not necissarily in a way that he likes me). I really like him but I try not to.

I think sometimes I only like #2 and #3 so I can get over #1 but still deep down I like all three of them a LOT.. especially #1... and #1 is the one I probably have the least chance with again =\


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Court answered Friday February 18 2005, 6:33 pm:
alright first off..if u really feel like #1 isnt going to happen again and you have feeling for other guys to..then i would say TRY to just be friends.

#2 i think this guy likes his gf..but he thinks he can get away with having other girls to...i bet he is thinking "well im not with my girlfriend all the time..so why not get attention from someone else." guys are like that at that age..we are only in middle school you cant really expect for all guys to be ready just to like one girl..as said as that is..its just that some cant. so ya i think he likes his girlfriend

#3 if you are trying to get yourself not to like him..and he has a girl friend AND he doesnt know how to stick to one girl...i would try to not like him.

in the end i think you will know who is right..it might take awhile, but thats how love works!

hope i helped!!

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