Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 9:52 pm
hey court..theres this guy that i hapen to be goin out with and i never see him and then there is this other guy who i use to have a thing with for like a very short while and he ended up totally screwing me over and now he wants me back or sumthing but i am going out with guy #1 but its so hard to just foget about #2 b/c ilike him so much but i am scared to go back to him b/c ithink he will use me again but i know that he would see me alot more then #1, and then there is the third guy..i dont see him as much as #2 but i see him alot more then #1..and the is SOOO freaking sweet and makes me feel so good about myself, but eveyone says hes a badguy but hes not and hes so nice! but i love #1 its just that we never ever see each other and that is like really really hard on me. and then there is kind of this other guy (#4?) and that is like a very long story b/c we are over and have been for an extremely long time..but..we were soo close and i still think about him alot and it makes me fell guilty especially since i am with #1. but i dont know how #4 feels and i cant get myself to foget about him as hard as i try and it really sucks..well i have no clue what to do..b/c i am with #1 but then #2 and #3 want me to break up with 1 for them and then there is 4 who i dont know about like at alll..?? help???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Court answered Thursday February 17 2005, 11:48 pm: alright..i have a feeling i know who this is..and all i can say is go with your heart..guy # 1 is never there..but he is sweet..BUT HE IS NEVER THERE..isnt being together all the time the point of boyfriend/girlfriend? #2 i would stay away..if he hurt you one then there is a BIG possiblity it will happen again. #3 seems great and i think you can get yourself out of anything before it gets bad..but it is always better to stay away from someone that all your friends think is bad. and last #4 i think yall are just like BEST friends and it was more than that for such a long time that its probably weird now..but from how you talk..i think you know it is over..but you arent sure if you want it to be for his sake. and i think you just being really good friends with him will be enough for him. if i had to pick one i would probably stay with #1 because all these other boys were there when you started going out with him and you still said yes. but im not you..i hope i helped!! if you are who i think you are than IM me and we can talk!! [ Court's advice column | Ask Court A Question ]
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