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BULLY


Question Posted Monday February 14 2005, 10:45 pm

There are these kids at my junior high. At lunch they steal my food and taunt me and call me names. It sounds gay, but it's true. I mean, once i accidently shed a tear at school because of all the things they called me. Now, they call me a whiny baby. Also, I just read this book about how kids brought a gun to school and shot everyone and then themselves. I mean, i don't think i'll kill myself, but i'd do anything to get back at those guys. Is there anyway of solving my prooblem in a less dramatic way??

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday February 14 2005, 11:33 pm:
Actually, this happens to a lot of people. And I know some serious bullys, and victims myself. Number one, there is no way to "beat" a bully, unless you have people to back you up because truly bully's win battles in numbers.. it's when they are all alone that they look stupid. Don't let them get to you, no matter how mad you get, they aren't worth being sent to ISS or the councilers over and definately aren't worth dying over because.. if you did that, that would just mean they won. If you really wanted to stop um in their tracks.. go ahead and laugh at yourself, if they call you something, agree, laugh.. if they aren't bothering you, it'll bother them. And last but definately not least, there is the ignoration tactic, though I've found that not to work most of the time, because bully's know about it, and they know that your trying to ignore them.. Be strong, bully's are really weak inside, why do you think they have to beat up on other people to feel good about themselves? I hope you have better success, and knock out one of the many bullies in the world. Good luck and if you need ANY further advice, don't hesitate to ask. :)

- Sarah

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