Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 1:38 am
well i would be that old boyfriend that (someone) had and i dont talk to my exgirlfriend because its weird unno i fucked up WE WERE BESTFRIENDS its hard talking to her when she used to be someone else...well now im getting random bitching lessons from her friends saying"she still likes u u should be nicer to her" "stop being such an uptight jerk" "why do u treat her so bad?" i would treat her better...BUT I DONT TALK TO HER IM NOT TREATING HER LIKE ANYTHING...what should i do about the getting bitched at?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shake answered Saturday February 12 2005, 1:42 am: Best way to do it, I have add so i learned to turn my brain off manually, sometimes it duz it automatically, but im working on getting over that. If you have add learn to hone that skill and not pay attention to them. The best way, listen to them as they talk to you, but dont show any reaction just say short things like mmmhmm, ya, im listening, and dont keep eye contact. After a while they will notice they are dumb to try and work with someone uninterestd in their babbling. It may be hard to ignor but think about something diffrent when they're talking to you. After a while they'll just give up and you'll be fine. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
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