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hello beautiful tara! i had a question for you and am in deep need of your advice. so friday afternoon my mom wasnt home, and so this guy came over and we hooked up. well...now its monday and its like nothing happened. i thought maybe he'd be a little different...but i was wrong. i wanna talk to him and ask him about it...but i dont think i should. its not like i hooked up with him so all of a sudden we'd be best friends and live happily ever after. no. cuz thats not why. but i mean...shouldnt he have changed something? he admitted he had deeper feelings for me but it seems like all he ever does is put me down....and he said that was because he liked me...but i just dunno. and when i say we hooked up, understand...it wasnt some huge thing. we basically just made out alot, so its not like i gave him my virginity and now i want him to be nice in return. nuh uh. nothing like that. but i just dunno...i love you tara and i hope you can help me with my little dilema!
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dear wondering,
aww thanks! i love you too! whoever you are.. and i would love to help with your dilemma. there is nothing wrong with hooking up, its totally harmless and totally fun. its one of those things where you can just have fun with a guy with no emotional strings attached. but in this case.. it doesnt seem like thats the way things went. you sound disappointed that nothing happened. as if deep down you expected him to want to maybe pursue a relationship but just didnt want to admit that? its happened to me before and i was puzzled until i realized i actually wanted to go out with the guy. it was good that you didnt do anything more than make out with him, because that shows your not an easy girl and you wont just hook up with anybody. he should have picked up on the hint, which he failed to do. and the way he said he had feelings for you deep down? make sure that wasnt just some line he gave you to get you to hook up with him. and the way you say he teases you? that was so middle school when a guy teased you because he liked you. not anymore. your man should respect you, and if you dont want him to tease you, then speak up! hes not worth it if hes going to be dispespectul to you. as for talking to him about this weekend.. wait. if he doesnt seem to pay attention to you other than the fact hes looking to get some more, then you are wasting your time. move on to another prospect, one who will like you for who you are.. not how you kiss.
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