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Sometimes when im just sitting in my room or laying in bed listening to music(not sad music or anything) but i start crying and i don't know why and it sometimes scares me.I was thinking that it could be that i am so depressed that i don't have a boyfriend and it feels like i'm not pretty/thin etc. enough to get a boyfriend. What's your advice?
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See, what happens is as you're listening to the music, some of the lyrics could upset you. I'm not talking about them cursing out and being offensive, but some girl might be singing about how incredibly awesome her boyfriend is and you'll get jealous.
But maybe you just need to keep yourself busy. When you're busy, you won't be able to think about how depressing your life may be. It works for a lot of people, but it could just make you stressed. So, don't load up your schedual too much.
As for boyfriends... Who cares? Anyone who doesn't like you for you isn't even worth the trouble. Guys, at this age, don't even have minds. They just want a playboy bunny hunny. Who WANTS a boyfriend who only judges by looks?
Not many people can look in the mirror and say "I'm gorgeous," so don't sweat it if you can't either. Just accept yourself and you'll come off to other people much more confident than you really are.So just hang out with your friends and go on many, many girls' days/nights out. You'll soon figure out how much you REALLY mean to your friends.
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