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Being Bisexual
Im Bisexual 14 year old and i wonna...well...have sex..with the same sex...i also wonna tell my parents that im bi..but i dont know how they will react...
Signed...14 year old bi guy
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Well, I am going to start off by saying that you're desire is a bit odd at you're age. By that, I don't mean your bisexuality. I mean that you want to have sex at such a young age. I mean, yeah, we all think about, but don't pull through with it because it's just stupid and what if you got diseases or something?
Anyhow, feel free to be bisexual, but it doesn't have to be the center of your life. As you introduce yourself you don't have to say things like, "Hi my name is John Doe and I'm bisexual." It can be a very casual thing and there are sooooo many people who are very accepting of homosexuals and bisexuals. So for now, just chill and be yourself and if you find a guy that's great for you, than feel free to go out with him or whatever.
About coming out to your parents. It's a very VERY tough thing to do it seems. I wouldn't know, but thinking of it makes me shutter. And you probably feel that. But, the sooner, the better. I know what you're thinking, "The horror!" But it doesn't have to be that way. You can be sitting at dinner and maybe you just feel like it's your moment to say it. And maybe you want to do it as you're all playing a board game.
But you have to decide when the time is right. Nobody can do that for you. But, don't blurt out, "I'M BISEXUAL!" because that will frighten them and get them in a deep shock state. Lead up to it, tell them a little about how you've been feeling lately.
Don't wait too long, the sooner THE BETTER.
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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