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I like my best friend :(
16/f and my best friend is 18/m and we live in two different states, I honestly am attracted to him in more than a friend way, but he has a gf, and i dont wanna have a ld relationship, but he has a gf, and he said that if i were to move there Id be with him, and that he wants me, and everything, but I mean, I know i cant have him at this moment and its killing me, I like him toomuch :( I want to get over him sorta but not really cuz we have something amazing everyone we both know, and were both friends say were gonna end up married and they think were dating no matter how much we tell them were not, so how do i get over him :( ...i dont wanna stop talking to him cuz hes my best ffriend...
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Keep the friendship thing going for now, especially since you are in two different states and you are 16 and (I assume) you're still in high school. Stay in touch as much as possible, on the phone or email, etc. Try to meet during vacation times, like spring break, summer time, and see how you feel about each other. If the vibes are still strong between you over the next six months (or even longer), then talk with your folks about maybe moving to his state to finish high school.
I'm only saying this because you should move slowly. Remember, you're 16 AND YOU STILL HAVE SO MUCH OF YOUR LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. So, stand back and think carefully before you run into anything. By the way, how do your parents feel about him? Do they like him and approve of your friendship? Do you have a good relationship with them? It doesn't hurt to be able to talk with them, have an open communication with them. It really makes it much easier, then there are no hurt feelings and they'll trust you AND him. And do they know his parents?
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