OK, I've been raped. Lets say, by the same person more than once. I don't feel the need to tell anyone. Was that a good choice? He's cute, nice, funny. ALL I want in a man! I'm 14. He's 20. He was so good at it too. The way he kissed me...it was great. I love it. But that's not normal...is it? I'm not suppose to love it, am I? I want to tell somebody. But I can't. They wouldn't understand my feelings for him. What can I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Vicco answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 1:23 pm: That wasn't a very good choice to be honest. He raped you, do you not understand rape? He's not a very good man. Sure, of course you THINK he's the one, but he's doing something thats hurting you. Really badly. It's normal to like a guy, but you shouldn't let him do that. It's perverted and unnecessary. They probably wouldn't understand your feelings for him, but you need to tell. He needs to be stopped before he hurts you or gets you in danger. Your life could be worthless if you keep letting him. Tell somebody, that's the best choice. When you get older look for a guy your age and not a guy who only wants you for sex and showing off. Get a good man, a man who loves you for you and not because your pretty or give good sex. [ Vicco's advice column | Ask Vicco A Question ]
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