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I WANT TO GET OVER HIM!
hey tara! ok ive liked this guy for quite awhile now & we've gotten too know each other really well. at first i thought we had somethin goin on just by the way he would talk to me & stuff..hes a huge flirt & even told me that he flirts with almost every girl so i wasnt sure if he liked me "that" way or just flirted w/ me like he did with every other girl. so one day we were chatting online & i dunno it felt like the perfect time to just tell him how i really felt. i was tired of playing games & i was so tired wondering what he was feeling..etc. so i told him that i liked him but he said he thought of me as a friend so i was crushed. & i cant get him out of my head & its killing me. im trying soooooooo hard to forget about him & MOVE ON! its so hard to get over someone when you really like them & cant stop thinking about them constantly. so if you have any ideas to GET OVER HIM that would be greatly appreciated. basically i dont want to like anyone at the time because its too stressful & filled w/ drama lol
<3 tired & hurt
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dear tired and hurt,
my dear, you asked me to do the impossible. i can't help you get this guy out of your head. you can't help who you like. i know it's not fair, but not all crushes work out as miracles. in fact it very rarely happens that way. its extremely HARD to get over someone, i'm not gonna lie. it takes time. my only solution for you, which COULD work if done right: find a distraction. look for a new guy. think there's none out there? you would be surprised. try talking to someone you have never really talked to before. get to know someone a little better. and just like that a new crush can develop. then it's out with the old, in with the new.
afraid the same thing is going to happen again? then take a break from guys all together. recuperate from this blow to your heart by spending time with girlfriends and hanging out in groups of guys and girls. the more you're having fun being single, the more you will realize you don't need this guy. it's gonna be tough but you can do it. good luck!
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